Your Sexuality is your Birthright!
I want to help you reclaim it…
Imagine if you could just be Honest about how Sexual you really are. Release Shame, Fear & Sex-Negative Internal Judgments. Shift Secretive Sexual Compulsivity to Sexual Authenticity. Learn to Express Your Personal Sexual Desires for Kink or other modalities in a Compelling, Consensual, Fulfilling Shame-free Way.
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Your innate sexuality is your birthright. It is meant to be enjoyed. It is meant to be expressed in an honest, shame-free way. No matter how you may have struggled in the past with secretive, compulsive, unhealthy sexual behaviors, or avoided your sexuality all-together, you can still learn to become sexually honest, authentic and fulfilled. Your current and future partners will be so grateful that you did! Developed over 20 years, I have helped hundreds of people like you learn easy to follow practices to confidently express their innate, authentic sexuality. This includes understanding the internalized cultural. religious and family belief systems that may have entangled your authentic sexual nature with shame, fear or loathsome self-judgment. For others it may also include reclaiming personal power and self-worth that may have been lost from sexual traumas and emotional woundings growing up. The process is to continually move towards what you want and away from what does not serve your intention. Learn More
Decoding Your Kink
Read 50 Shades? – Read This Next!
“Visionary… Masterful… Groundbreaking… Cutting Edge…Worth its Weight in Diamonds … Highly Recommended …Compelling…Written from the Heart…A Must Read”
These are some of the early exclamations from sex positive psychologists, therapists, relationship specialists and Kink sex educators who reviewed my new book Decoding Your Kink. I am excited and honored my peers and colleauges have given the book such generous accolades. I feel encouraged to help more people discover the potent sexual pleasures of engaging their Kinky desires in healthy, fulfilling shame-free ways. To learn more about the book, the full text of the reviews and the scintiallting insights and roadmaps into consious Kink sexuality found in Decoding Your Kink click here
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Discover your Personal Erotic Myth – Free Survey
Knowing Your PEM Can Open You to Unimagined Sexual Ecstasy, Deepen Intimacy in Your Relationships, Help You Avoid Erotic Mismatches in Long Term Relationships and Create More Successful Relationship Outcomes! A Personal Erotic Myth (PEM) contains the fantasy imagery, story-lines, dialogue, props, settings attire, personas and actions, that drive a person that has a PEM to orgasm, or other deep erotic states.
It is often expressed in fetish, kink and D/s-BDSM oriented sex. Some people are quite aware of their PEM. Some may have multiple PEM’s that ebb and flow in their sex life. For many others, it is still an unconscious but compelling force, just below acknowledged awareness, that drives their sexual desire. It is the aspect of their Eros that they have not looked at, or engaged in consciously. But during sex, in the moments right before orgasm, it can flood into the body in wild, fierce gestures, accompanied by vocalized profane, blasphemous invectives (sound-bytes from the PEM). If you are curious, and ready to discover more about your PEM take the FREE Personal Erotic Myth Research Survey. Once you take the survey, you can review the fascinating statistics and comments of over 2400 previous responders. Learn More
Are you a sex-therapist, counselor or coach interested in learning Shame-Free Kink-Positive insights and tools to support your clients?
I have nearly 20 years experience in the realm of Kink-oreinted sexual psychology. I have helped thousands of people learn simple to follow techniques to understand and claim their authentic sexuality and begin to reduce the impacts of the shame, fear or trauma that may inhibit its full, healthy expression. Part of my practice is to offer one-on-one consultations to other therapists beginning to work in this emerging field of Kink-Positive Therapy. Scheduling a professional consultation with me is an opportunity to bring up real world questions and issues you have generally about Kink or in specific contexts you have experienced with your clients. An initial consultation can be arranged via Skype, Phone or in Person by going to my Client page . Choose an appointment option to confirm your session and then email me with some times you are available and I will confirm.
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