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Your Sexuality is your Birthright!
I want to help you reclaim it…

authenticity.picImagine if you could just be Honest about how Sexual you really are. Release  Shame, Fear & Sex-Negative Internal Judgments.  Shift Secretive Sexual Compulsivity to Sexual Authenticity. Learn to Express Your Personal Sexual Desires for Kink or other modalities in a Compelling, Consensual, Fulfilling Shame-free Way.

To learn about working with me GO HERE

Your innate sexuality is your birthright. It is meant to be enjoyed. It is meant to be expressed in an honest, shame-free way.  No matter how you may have struggled in the past with  secretive, compulsive, unhealthy sexual behaviors, or avoided your sexuality all-together, you can still learn to become sexually honest, authentic and fulfilled. Your current and future partners will be so grateful that you did! Developed over 20 years, I have helped hundreds of people like you learn easy to follow practices to  confidently express their innate, authentic sexuality.  This includes understanding the internalized cultural. religious and family belief systems that may have entangled your authentic sexual nature with shame, fear or loathsome self-judgment. For others it may also include reclaiming personal power and self-worth that may have been lost from sexual traumas and emotional woundings growing up. The process is to continually move towards what you want and away from what does not serve your intention. Learn More

Decoding Your Kink
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“Visionary… Masterful… Groundbreaking… Cutting Edge…Worth its Weight in Diamonds … Highly Recommended …Compelling…Written from the Heart…A Must Read” 

These are some of the early exclamations from sex positive psychologists, therapists, relationship specialists and Kink sex educators who reviewed my new book Decoding Your Kink. I am excited and honored my peers and colleauges have given the book such generous accolades. I feel encouraged to help more people discover the potent sexual pleasures of engaging their Kinky desires in healthy, fulfilling shame-free ways. To learn more about the book, the full text of the reviews and the scintiallting insights and roadmaps into consious Kink sexuality found in Decoding Your Kink click here

To buy  the paperback or ebook versions on Amazon.com or recommend to a friend, here is the link for Decoding Your Kink on Amazon.

To Order Decoding Your Kink as an ebook direct from my site get DYK here for $10

Updated Discover your Personal Erotic Myth 2.0 – Free Sex Survey

Knowing Your PEM Can Open You to Unimagined Sexual Ecstasy,  Deepen  Intimacy in Your Relationships,  Help You Avoid Erotic Mismatches in Long Term Relationships and Create More Successful  Relationship Outcomes!   

A Personal Erotic Myth (PEM) contains the fantasy imagery, story-lines, dialogue, props, settings attire,  personas and actions, that drive a person that has a PEM to orgasm, or other deep erotic states.

It is often expressed in fetish, kink and D/s-BDSM oriented sex. Some people are quite aware of their PEM. Some may have multiple PEM’s that ebb and flow in their sex life. For many others,  it is  still an unconscious but compelling force, just below acknowledged awareness,  that drives their sexual desire. It is the aspect of their Eros that they have not looked at, or engaged in consciously.  But during sex, in the moments right before orgasm,  it can flood into the body in wild, fierce gestures, accompanied by vocalized profane, blasphemous invectives (sound-bytes from the PEM). If you are curious, and ready to discover more about your PEM take the FREE Personal Erotic Myth Research Survey.  Once you take the survey, you can review the fascinating statistics and comments of over 7000 previous responders. Learn More

Are you a sex-therapist, counselor or coach interested in learning  Shame-Free Kink-Positive insights and tools to support your clients?

I have nearly 20 years experience in the realm of Kink-oreinted sexual psychology. I have helped thousands of people learn simple to follow techniques to understand and claim their authentic sexuality and begin to reduce the impacts of the shame, fear or trauma that may inhibit its full, healthy expression. Part of my practice is to offer one-on-one consultations to other therapists beginning to work in this emerging field of Kink-Positive Therapy. Scheduling a professional consultation with me is an opportunity to bring up real world questions and issues you have generally about Kink or in specific contexts you have experienced with your clients. An initial consultation can be arranged via Skype, Phone or in Person by going to my Client page . Choose an appointment option to confirm your session and then email me with some times you are available and I will confirm.

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  1. Lindsey December 7, 2013 at 2:31 am - Reply

    The site looks wonderful, Galen! You speak the truth! 🙂


  2. Cara Sutra April 21, 2014 at 10:48 am - Reply

    What a great site! Love your work and I agree with what you say. I am an advocate of BDSM and fetish as part of everyone’s psyche somewhere, however that is manifested. I also campaign for a full societal acceptance of BDSM and its practices and kinks.
    Thanks again – Cara xxx

  3. Rose September 19, 2015 at 7:55 am - Reply

    Hi Galen, love the topics you pick and thankful for educating so many of us.

    I remember I had the book you wrote and it dissapeared from my computer. I also see it is not available. To bad I wanted the person I am seeing to read it. I Have him reading your articles, in hopes….keeping my fingers crossed.

    Thanks for your transparency and work.

  4. james wood September 28, 2015 at 1:21 am - Reply

    Galan…I am interested in BUYING your hard copy book when it is available on Amazon. Please send a post when this is available to buy. You may send me a digital copy…I will read it ahead of time…but mainly I would like to have a copy I can highlight and make notes in.



  5. Dainis September 6, 2020 at 6:31 am - Reply

    Galen, I’m also subscribing to the idea that our bodies and sexuality is meant to be enjoyed and explored! Keep this up, love the different ideas you’re discussing that helps to open up my worldview too! Hope that Covid didn’t mess up the event plans too much and you will instead go online more.

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