A client chooses to explore the depths of her submissive sexual kink after keeping it hidden for decades. Her reluctant "nice guy" fiancé slowly warms to his own dominant counterpart. “It was incredibly empowering… to reveal the secret desires I had hidden away for decades. I finally met this young girl who has been with me, in my fantasies or mythic desire, as you call it, in nearly every orgasm throughout my life…I felt so enlivened, so awakened by the experience.” A client couple was divided by an unbridgeable erotic mismatch at the start of our work together. The woman had intense life-long sexual desires to submit to an aggressive dominant man.  Her partner was taught growing up to treat women with respect and tenderness. During the course of their work with me, her enlivened passion began to wake up the dominant, sexual masculine within her fiancé. Up until this point, he had been the kind, sweet masculine presence he had been raised to be. While this made for a generally easy-going, loving day to day relationship, it also left his partner’s fierce authentic erotic desires [...]

Are you a therapist, counselor or coach interested in learning Shame-Free Kink-Positive insights and tools to support your clients?   There has been an explosion of Kink sexuality across all levels of society in the last decade. But Kink is a very complex sexuality that requires coming to terms with the sex-negative fear, shaming, trauma, confusion and sexual dishonesty prevalent in our culture. This complexity has left many of the current academic and clinical models of sex therapy and psychology inadequate if not obsolete.   The initial webinar covered the principal concepts of Kink Psychology, Archetypes, Personal Erotic Myths and the 5 Keys to conscious integration of one’s Kink sexuality into their everyday lives. If you are new to Kink and Kink psychology I recommend reviewing this video before attending future webinars. It can be viewed on my youtube channel at https://youtu.be/Nad7AWeRD-g . In this month’s webinar I will review issues I have addressed with singles and couples related to consensual Kink. This would include dealing with a client’s embedded shame, fear and trauma that may resist honest authentic expression of one’s Kink desires. As [...]