Sex and Violence

    What separates sex from violence is Eros.  Without the intention of mutual Eros, sex is an attack, a take down, a mounting of one over another, a hunger sated, a biological imperative fulfilled.  It is predator and prey at its most primal, cold-blooded expression.  It is the re-enactment of the hunter and the hunted,  hot-blooded and ravenous, if still inhumane.  What unites sex with our humanity is Eros. Eros is the mysterious, creative, sexual dimension of love. Within that love, our Eros may flourish. We may express it in the most tender, sensuous ways imaginable. With a consenting partner, we may explore every taboo, primitive, wild lust ever conceived. Within Eros both are gateways to profound intimacy and liberated ecstasy.           Excerpt from the Highly acclaimed Decoding Your Kink - Guide to Explore Share and Enjoy Your Wildest Sexual Desires. "Visionary...Masterful...Groundbreaking...Cutting Edge...Worth its Weight in Diamonds ... Highly Recommended...A Must Read"     Available on Amazon.com                    Check out my world famous 3 in 1 Tetruss portable dungeon, suspension bondage rig and sex swing. Serving the global Fetish [...]

By | 2016-07-23T16:41:36+00:00 July 23rd, 2016|Uncategorized|0 Comments

Cradle to Grave

    The Erotic Wilderness is a vast territory well beyond the societal norm. It is a complex, alluring aspect of the sexual psyche largely unexplored by individuals, couples or culture. Eros relentlessly and seductively beckons us to venture into the ecstatic intoxicating sexual depths within. Too many men and women have barely ventured, and left their Erotic Wilderness unexplored for decades. Some try to explore it in secretive shadowy ways, often with disastrous results. Some abandon their sexuality completely. It feels safer to remain within the narrows of normal, cradle to grave, rather than explore it in a conscious healthy way. What will you do now, when Eros calls?           Excerpt from the Highly acclaimed Decoding Your Kink - Guide to Explore Share and Enjoy Your Wildest Sexual Desires. "Visionary...Masterful...Groundbreaking...Cutting Edge...Worth its Weight in Diamonds ... Highly Recommended...A Must Read"     Available on Amazon.com                  Check out my world famous 3 in 1 Tetruss portable dungeon, suspension bondage rig and sex swing. Serving the global Fetish community since 2000

By | 2016-07-16T18:38:45+00:00 July 16th, 2016|Uncategorized|0 Comments

Your Only Chance

All I can do and give is my best effort to my life and mission…the rest is up to the mystery, often called Spirit. I try to revisit this awareness when I am feeling some loathsome, fearful, shaming self-judgment that I am going to fail or fall embarrassingly short. I wasn’t perfect! I won’t ever be lovable! My experience with the mystery reminds me to forgive and love myself anew. Always give your best. Be passionate about your life and mission. Be smart. Work hard. But understand there can be times where nothing is working. When every resource feels depleted. In these moments, the only chance you may have to stay on mission and survive, is a small to very large miracle. If you can risk leaning on blind faith, to surrender to something beyond your own will, the mystery may miraculously carry you out of harms way and nudge you along … or drop-kick you to the next leg of your magical journey.     Excerpt from the Highly acclaimed Decoding Your Kink - Guide to Explore Share and Enjoy Your Wildest Sexual Desires. "Visionary...Masterful...Groundbreaking...Cutting Edge...Worth its Weight [...]

By | 2016-07-10T21:07:58+00:00 July 10th, 2016|Uncategorized|0 Comments

Human-Sexual Beings

  An unprecedented percentage of the world population - men, women and a pantheon of identities in-between, are choosing to be liberated sexual beings. They no longer ignore nor hide that they are sexual creatures well beyond the imperative of procreation. This has never happened before en masse in the hsitory of civilization. The jet set of every age frolicked madly, but not the masses. In this era more and more everyday people are making their sexual rights, and authentic expressions, a valid part of their human experience. People are deciding their personal sexuality deserves as much care, education, expression and nourishment as their physical, emotional, intellectual and spiritual needs. They want most of all for their personal sexuality to be granted the nonchalance of normalcy, no matter the content of their sexual identity or expression. Sexual authenticity, consensually practiced, is a fundamental human right.     Excerpt from the Highly acclaimed Decoding Your Kink - Guide to Explore Share and Enjoy Your Wildest Sexual Desires. "Visionary...Masterful...Groundbreaking...Cutting Edge...Worth its Weight in Diamonds ... Highly Recommended...A Must Read"     Available on Amazon.com  Check out my world famous 3 in 1 Tetruss portable [...]

By | 2016-06-23T17:39:19+00:00 June 23rd, 2016|Uncategorized|0 Comments

Leap of Faith

  If in some moment you feel desperate and hopeless, pushed to the very edge of your existence, a leap of faith may be the only leap you have. left. When rationality and determination have been depleted, don’t hesitate. Leap! FREE-fall into the dark impossible abyss of surrender where miracles, reversals of misfortune, twists of fate, unanticipated anomalies, synchronicities and all other potentials of the magical mystery of life are waiting to lift you up. You have nothing to lose. Faith is the gateway to the miraculous.         Excerpt from the Highly acclaimed Decoding Your Kink - Guide to Explore Share and Enjoy Your Wildest Sexual Desires. "Visionary...Masterful...Groundbreaking...Cutting Edge...Worth its Weight in Diamonds ... Highly Recommended...A Must Read"     Available on Amazon.com  Check out my world famous 3 in 1 Tetruss portable dungeon, suspension bondage rig and sex swing. Serving the global Fetish community since 2000

By | 2016-06-18T16:56:39+00:00 June 18th, 2016|Uncategorized|0 Comments

Plan Your Escape Now!

  If someone dwells in the safety of the shallows they will not find the deeper experience life offers. Popular culture is designed to keep us in the shallows. We are encouraged to kill the time we have for life with frivolous pursuits. It is the path most will follow, and maybe rightly so. For them! But if your soul burns to dwell in the depths where you touch the sacred, where personally meaningful art emerges, magical intimacy occurs, ecstatic passions express, inspiration launches you beyond any tangible limitation, then dive deep. Escape the shallows. This is what you are meant to do.         Excerpt from the Highly acclaimed Decoding Your Kink - Guide to Explore Share and Enjoy Your Wildest Sexual Desires. "Visionary...Masterful...Groundbreaking...Cutting Edge...Worth its Weight in Diamonds ... Highly Recommended...A Must Read"     Available on Amazon.com  Check out my world famous 3 in 1 Tetruss portable dungeon, suspension bondage rig and sex swing. Serving the global Fetish community since 2000

By | 2016-06-12T16:27:36+00:00 June 12th, 2016|Uncategorized|0 Comments

What if it isn’t Sex/Porn Addiction, but Sexual Authenticity Disorder (SAD)?

    Date: May 31, 6:30 pm Pacific time Use this link for FREE registration http://app.webinarjam.net/register/10787/775a9b171d Are you struggling with Sex/Porn addiction, or is it Sexual Authenticity Disorder (SAD)? Galen Fous MTP coined the term SAD to define the deep-seated fear his clients expressed of revealing or others discovering the hidden, and often compulsive aspects of their sexuality. SAD is most often the result of growing up in a restrictive, shaming, sex-negative family, religion and/or social culture. The individual afflicted with SAD was never allowed honest discussion nor encouragement about their personally natural sexual desires. This webinar invites you to open your eyes to a new way of viewing your sexuality, and addressing the compulsive issues you may be dealing with. You will learn specific practices you can follow to shift from compulsivity to authenticity. This webinar can also be valuable to therapists and counselors looking to support their clients through the complexities of their sexual desire and its honest expression. Having worked with thousands of men, women and couples dealing with concerns about their sexual desires, Craig and I want to affirm that you [...]

By | 2016-05-26T21:59:04+00:00 May 26th, 2016|Uncategorized|0 Comments

Sex in the Dark

 As a culture, we tend to keep our true sexual nature hidden, out of the light. But Eros is a fierce resilient creature.  Even without light, it can grow ferociously in the dark. As a result our hidden Erotic yearnings are often acted out in shadowy, secretive, unhealthy, harmful ways. This secrecy just drives our personal sexual desire further into shame  and fear, rather than being looked at and understood, if not welcomed and enjoyed. The lifelong fear of our sexuality coats and rigidifies the body as well as our emotions  and psyches.  It constricts and inhibits the instinctive physical,  vocal and emotional gestures of our desire. Our movements into our authentic Erotic expression can be awkward and clumsy. Our Erotic voice clenches in our throat. We can’t meet the gaze of our partner. In the most extreme edges of Erotic fear, we can’t get hard or wet.  Do all you can to raise your sexuality into the light!       Excerpt from the Highly acclaimed Decoding Your Kink - Guide to Explore Share and Enjoy Your Wildest Sexual Desires. "Visionary...Masterful...Groundbreaking...Cutting Edge...Worth its Weight in Diamonds ... Highly Recommended...A [...]

By | 2016-05-18T16:02:25+00:00 May 18th, 2016|Uncategorized|0 Comments

Victim No More

The difference between being victimized and being a victim...         Excerpt from the Highly acclaimed Decoding Your Kink - Guide to Explore Share and Enjoy Your Wildest Sexual Desires. "Visionary...Masterful...Groundbreaking...Cutting Edge...Worth its Weight in Diamonds ... Highly Recommended...A Must Read"     Available on Amazon.com  Check out my world famous 3 in 1 Tetruss portable dungeon, suspension bondage rig and sex swing. Serving the global Fetish community since 2000

By | 2016-02-13T17:47:00+00:00 February 13th, 2016|Uncategorized|0 Comments

Conscious Erotic Dominance for Men

Personalized Mentoring for Het Male Doms     Tender to Fierce, Refined to Primitive, Sacred to Profane - Consciously Express the full range of your Erotic Dominance There is no one way to be an Erotic Dominant. Each man is unique and should develop his own code of Masculinity and Dominance. That said, D/s between a man and woman in this modern era is complex territory.  I offer my 20 years experience as a Lifestyle Dom to help you through the maze of complexity, paradoxes and pitfalls you may encounter to find your own confident, empowered compelling version of being an Erotic Dominant, from tender to fierce, refined to primitive, sacred to profane. Each session will focus on your own situation, specific questions or concerns you have about D/s-BDSM sexuality and relationships. Special Offer for Men – $260 value for only $99! 2 personalized one-hour sessions – only $99 (Skype, phone or in person). Plus, first 10 sign-ups receive Galen’s acclaimed new book– Decoding Your Kink – Guide to Explore, Share and Enjoy your Wildest Sexual Desires. Reserve your session time by going to my order page [...]

By | 2016-01-28T23:17:42+00:00 January 28th, 2016|Uncategorized|0 Comments