Unlike 50 Shades of Grey, The Sharp Edge of Love renders true accounts of four unique, amazing, passionate women who cross the threshold of their darkest desires into the realms of  “EXTREME SEX, MYTHIC PASSION, PRIMAL INTENSITY!” This highly acclaimed book can be valuable to readers currently peering over the edges of their own desires, for real time D/s, Kink, Fetish and BDSM sex. The Sharp Edge of Love transforms fictional fantasy, into authentic real world engagement between real people. It is sizzling hot sexy,  romantically potent, and humanly authentic, versus the inaccurate, unconscious, emotionally unhealthy, and reckless fantasy depicted in Fifty Shades of Grey. ORDER HERE Hot Reviews “The Sharp Edge of Love has gotten some serious online buzz!”  MJ Rose, Wired.com “… like eavesdropping on a private conversation… these intimate confessions made me blush and turned me on.” — Betty Dodson, Ph.D, Author of Sex for One “…I became literally obsessed, unable to keep my hands off the book- or myself!” — Mindcaviar.com, Cassandra Snow “…a taboo-breakers stroke dream…like A Man and His Maid all over again, only without the British Victoriana.” — Susie Bright, Playboy columist; editor-Best American [...]

How to Get Honest About Your Own Sexual Norm --- There is a long unending stream of national news reports about politicians, teachers, religious leaders, entertainers, sports figures and other celebrities, caught in some variation of sexual dishonesty. Pundits and experts often label the behaviors, and the fall from grace that follows, the result of sex addiction. These cases are just the visible tip of the iceberg of our collective sexual shadow, and the secretive ways we attempt to express our sexuality. These highly publicized celebrity cases point to, but overlook a larger issue of rampant sexual dishonesty that is found at every level of the culture. These cases are just the visible tip of the iceberg of our collective sexual shadow, and the secretive ways we attempt to express our sexuality. Imagine all the rest of the population that are indulging their sexuality in covert ways. The stats are astronomical! Based on keyword searches for affairs, visits to hook-up sites like Craigslist ads and Ashley Madison themed websites, not to mention all the secret porning by men and women both, our level of sexual [...]

5 keys to being a sexually authentic, conscious and empowered man. --- Being sexually authentic is your birthright. Sharing your deepest sexual truths with a trusted partner is one of the most loving, liberating, intimate and ecstatic of human experiences. Many men hide authentic aspects of their sexual desire…for good reason! Our sex-negative culture, family, religions and even our relationships often deny men a safe, welcoming place to honor and discuss the full spectrum of their sexual desires. They seldom honor, bless and respect any but the narrowest view of acceptable sexual practice or frequency. In fact, the tangible fear of being shamed, harshly judged, or of losing partners, family or friends can leave many men secretive or shadowy about their true sexual desire. Some men are so deep in shame and guilt they can’t get past the fear of speaking openly about their desires to those closest to them. Some men can become consumed by fantasy, masturbation or porn rather than risk openly expressing what’s true to their partners…or even to themselves. Many men were emotionally wounded (shamed or terrorized) as boys around their [...]

Learn more about Fetishsexuality, data from the 800 Personal Erotic Myth Survey takers - 33% aware of their sexuality and masturbating by age 10!, and Q & A with students in Part 4 of my talk to the Human Sexuality Psych class at PSU

Fetishsexuality as Sexual Identity and 5 Keys to Conscious Sexuality - Sexual Authenticity, Sexual Honesty, Sexual Empowerment, Sexual Shadow, Paradox   from Part 3 of Redefining Sex Therapy for  21st Century Sexuality by Galen Fous MTP  lecture at Portland State University to the Human Sexuality class

Guest Lecture By Galen Fous MTP, Portland State University Human Sexuality - Psych 401 Class: Part 1. Unprecedented Explosion of Sexuality Globally, Outdated Clinical Psychological Model of Sex Therapy and Diagnosis

Part 2. Lecture at Portland State University -  Galen Fous MTP challenges clinical psychologies outdated DSM V model of sex therapy, and describes Sexual Authenticity disorder.

Being a Sexually Conscious and Empowered Man If you seek encouragement for owning the truth about your sexual desires, and consciously expressing those desires, this workshop may offer you valuable tools to begin to resolve the conflicted, wounded, shadowy, dis-empowered aspects of your sexuality.   Being sexually authentic is your birthright. Sharing your deepest sexual truths with a trusted partner is one of the most loving, liberating, intimate and ecstatic of human experiences. Many men hide authentic aspects of their sexual desire…for good reason! Our sex-negative culture, family, religions and even our relationships seldom offer a safe, welcoming place to honor and discuss the full spectrum of our sexual desires. Nor do they honor, bless and respect any but the narrowest view of acceptable sexual practice or frequency. In fact, the tangible fear of being shamed, ostracized, harshly judged, or of losing partners, family, friends, and even employment can leave many men secretive or shadowy about their true sexual desire. Some men are so deep in shame and guilt they can’t get past the fear of speaking openly about their desires to those closest to [...]

Each person has an innate, authentic sexual identity as distinct as a fingerprint and as inherent as your eye color…                      

You are either what YOU consciously embody, or what unconsciously embodies you. The body is the analog of the unconscious! Most of us have innocently lost a conscious appreciation of a fundamental part of our human experience….our bodies. In other words, we are barely aware that we live in a body exquisitely sensitive, communicative, mobile, graceful, erotic, emotionally expressive and alive from head to toe. Its language reflects important information about our emotional and spiritual state. The body is often under severe stress and tension, mirroring the inner stresses and tensions we experience consciously and unconsciously. In our rationally based culture, we live to great extent from the neck up. Our heads are often in a whirl of thoughts, fears, judgments, stories, fantasies, shame, anger, sadness. We forget to breathe and be still, to feel, to move…to be present. There are times we may unconsciously disconnect from the body altogether to avoid feeling a painful experience we may be undergoing emotionally. In already stressful times, additional tensions are created in the body and psyche by our cultural imperative to soldier on, in a stoic manner, [...]